And then you were gone...

And then you were gone
Not a farewell
Not a see you soon
Not even an explanation
All that time searching and it was over in a blink.
I couldn't catch my breath
At first I thought you're busy, somethings come up
But the days turned to weeks turned to months and now it's a year.
Who knew
who knew something like this could leave me feeling blue
And confused and some nights, even blaming myself
You knew
You know me, surely
You know what I'm like
You know what makes me tick
You stood by and let this happen

See I don't even know why I'm surprised
I mean you always did let me down eventually
One day I'd be flying on euphoria and the next day I'd be cleaning up the mess my heart had made slamming against the floor
It was always like that
Like a drug up and down, down and up
Waiting for my next hit
Knowing you'd turn up
Like an addict on his last breath
Crying out for another hit another score
Boom
Bash
There you are
The creature of my nightmares
the person of my dreams
The one who kept me going when I thought I'd lost my way
Traipsing through the night with no care in the world
Knowing you'd be somewhere
You were always somewhere
But now you are nowhere
And I'm left again sat on the sidelines of our messed up history trying to piece the little clues you left behind
Trying to make a sense out of it
I always tried to
Tried to heal my broken heart
Tried to move on...

Now it feels over
It feels cold
It feels sudden and painful and it hurts
You hurt me again
Who knew you could
I did
You did
They all did

Congratulations
I hope one day it hits you
You see my face in your thoughts and you wonder where I am in this life
And I hope it is too late
I hope you are left not knowing too

Why should I be the only victim...

The X Game

Shouldn't feel jealous
Shouldn't compare it
No that would be stupid of me to

Shouldn't be concerned with
Or ask questions about
Or even let images stick in my mind

To allow this will allow more
And swimming is what I'll do
And then drowning will become the next moment
And then dead

I cannot compare it
They aren't the same
The time frame is different
The relationship is different
I'm not the same
Neither are they

So what if language changed
So what if they've travelled more
So what
This isn't a competition
This isn't a race
You don't win anything if you sit and disgrace
You just embarrass yourself and leave yourself weak

Don't be full of hate my dear
Just accept the been and gone
Just allow the life to run as it may
Don't go back into space you never were
Just be in the here and now

Goodbye

There's a lot to be said about the word goodbye
For it has so many different meanings
When I left my old house and I sat in my bedroom that word cut straight through me
When I was bullied in high school the word was filled with glee
When I moved away for university I felt quite scared and anxious
When I've said this word to family members who had passed away, I felt a part left me
But now I'm saying it to my old scared self
The girl who thought she couldn't
Or wouldn't or shouldn't
Because the woman I am today showed her she could and would and did
I'm where I've always wanted to be
The dreams are now reality
I'm stressing over things that actually matter and that feeling really surprises me
I've spent so many years looking and hiding and trying and wishing and wanting
But now I'm at that stage in my life that I feel like all that's forgotten
Goodbye to me now, means nostalgia and bliss and moving on for the better
Being better
Achieving more

Social Media

Chance after chance of whole grain wheat
sorrys and oopsie daisies and begging on their knees
cowards and twats and twits

You meet someone and its like butter wouldnt melt
everything you hear is gold dust
you get taken out and splashed out on and everything feels like perfect
you get yourself hooked and talk everyday and text and fall asleep with each other
you dial their number and oh hey they do say and a smile its etched on your face now
You are so happy and facebook gets busy and you take some pictures and share them
your life feels more busy and you are so frilly and dance around excited to see them
data after date and night after night
and text after call after voice note
the time is a flowing and your love is growing and nothing can damage this perfection

But like the weather it can sometimes change and leave you amongst clouds in the winter
it can start to rain and sleet and snow and you have no idea what is going on
the social media platform is now abandoned and forlorn and you cant see the happy smiles
you are no longer upbeat

Chance after chance of whole grain wheat
sorry after sobbing after flowers after texts
knocking on your door
banging your window
asking you to forgive

21st century love life
lost in the classic love story
lost in the getting to know someone
lost in the dating
just getting into bedding
not getting to know properly
people are wolves in sheeps clothing
they are lying
they are pretending
they are using
abusing
texting and calling
liking and deleting
blocking and tormenting
the love life
the modern day love life, lost in the media
the media of socialism
the media of opinion
the caring what they thinking
the writing the status and checking in
show you are busy
show you are somebody
show you are with somebody
be with somebody
dont be alone
dont be single
force it
forgive and lose
chance after chance
forgive and lose, get lost get sad


NO
this can not be the life of 2017
this can not go on
feelings are real
you cant edit the text
you can not undo the done
you cant delete it
or unshare it
its out there, its real
it beats
the heart beats
it gets hurt
no font colour can change that
no emoticon can erase that
its real
people are real
social media isnt
its just a rose tinted view
its just a lie
its just a curtain drawn slang match in mute
its just lies
all lies
all evil
all fake

chance after chance of whole grain wheat
not anymore
you blew it
you blew your chances
no more fucks will be given
do not mess with me and my blood line
did you not listen
to the rules of childhood
you play with fire and you will get burnt

Never a better companion

The day has been etched on my brain since day one
I can remember finding out and being so excited Mum had said yes
I watched you come into this life and I was smitten
You were and are adorable

I can remember impatiently waiting for you to be ready and your eyes open
I couldn't wait to get to know you and spend some time with you

Uni was tough, because I knew then I would be leaving you behind
You gave me company every night
I remember coming home on visits and crying into your fur
You comforted me through the toughest times

Now you are 13 years old, turning 14 in April and my heart bleeds for you
I can see that you are getting older and it terrifies me
I don't want you to leave me

I found a lump this morning and I was broken
I haven't felt myself all day
You are my pet and I love you
I don't want to imagine life without you

So I allow the tears to roll down my face and I look deep into my heart and I pray
I pray for you
Never have I felt so understood
So necessary to some one elses life
3 whole years you have lived with me and never once did I feel alone

Please stay a little bit longer
I need you to
I love you and I will be here for you

I have written this to remind myself.

Whatever happens I was very fortunate to have this cat in my life
To Joey

With love, forever x

We are ALL dying to live

Take a second to hear yourself
can you hear the heart beating? Can you feel it?
What is it beating for?
Life? Death?

Who believes in destiny? I used to think the beats were counting down
down to the last few moments
but after time I realised that was the wrong way around
The beats are counting up
counting higher
as life gets faster we get higher
life is faster every time I see the love of my life
taking me higher
making my smile deeper
oh how lucky
I am
finally
lucky
in love
Who believes in destiny?

Not enough moments sometimes
I get lost in her eyes often
her voice can wake me from the deepest sleep
her face can calm me from the worst nightmare
I just adore her

What is dying?
When the time is up
when the room is dark and no one is left watching you anymore
the stage becomes cold and the sign at the right says over
life is over
what begins next?
surely its like the radio
when does that stop?
its a loop surely
we go somewhere else
or maybe we don't
maybe we all just float around asking each other the same question
what next?

In films they say different things
the one I like is in American Beauty
I like it because its warming
it says that death plays out your life
every single moment
you can be part of it all again
like a film you can laugh out loud, or cry like a baby
but either way you are busy and you are watching

We are ALL dying in order to live
as the more we do, the more time we take away
away from what we have
and what we want
It is never something people say
I am ready to die?
Is it?
People always want longer
like an exam with a timer going off
I just need to finish this sentence, you plead
but they say pens down
and you hand in the paper
and you hope you did enough

well that's a way to see your life
your time may be up but you hope you did enough
before my Patty, I would be the one pleading for more time

But if you asked me now
say it was my time
the exam was over
death was upon me..
I would say thank you
this last 14/15 months has been more of a life, than the best part of it all, before
My heart has been beating quicker and my heart has been in love
I have felt myself getting higher each  day
I have felt the smile stick to my every emotion
I would be sorry to go but happy
happy that I had achieved my lifelong dreams
to become a teacher (if only a trainee)
to fall in love (the greatest feeling a human can have)
I am engaged and I am excited

but if it is to be over now
take my pen
take my paper
and thank you for the opportunity.
Now lets watch this life once more....

PGE written 7/10/16 unposted

But she didn't know
She didn't know how my heart beat
She didn't know how beautiful she was
She didn't know that every morning I woke up next to her, how lucky I really felt
She didn't know how her smile could fix the darkest day and how her touch could heal my pain
She didn't know.

She didn't know how much she has changed my life
Or how meeting her blew my mind
How clever she is
How proud she should feel
She didn't know how strong she really is inside
She doesn't know
She tries to but she doesn't get close
She barely scratches the surface on my feelings for her

I'm lay here next to her
She is sleeping
She doesn't know how much I love her
Or how much I care
She doesn't know how I intend to love her for the rest of my life
She doesn't hear the truth in my heart beat
The pain that cuts me when she cries
The tears that fall when she's unhappy with her body
The true hurt in my soul as I hear her cry

I will tell you that I love her
I will tell you that she is most beautifully sensitive and sweet natured person I have ever met
I will tell you that her voice woke me up the first time we spoke.. woke me from the mundanity of my existence
Her spirit is alive and it's stronger than she thinks
Her body is the epitomy of perfect
She is my life and my heart
And one day I dream of her being my wife
But she didn't know this
She doesn't know it
But maybe after seeing it written, she will